When my dad passed away, I was 7 months pregnant with Hillary. At the funeral someone said to me "BE STRONG". So I bought into that concept... and 1 month later my husband of 11 years walked in and told me he "JUST DIDN'T WANT TO BE MARRIED ANYMORE". He left and one month later I drove myself to the hospital to have Hillary. I kept "Being Strong" for about 4 years and then I started having panic attacks...because I never experienced my feelings about the death and the walk out! BE STRONG was bad advice...cry and feel sad, experience the loss fully, would have been better advice.
Paula
Camarillo, CA
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